Anchor Upon Dreams

Be not discouraged by the deep sorrow of your past.
Do not be swayed by the ideals of the status quo.
You will soon be in a place of peace.
Peace like a river; calm and serenity.
Where the sound of the water plays as a symphony.
The song of your sorrows; like a trail of tears.
Releasing the pain of years-- Fear; like an anchor upon your dreams.
It keeps one grounded in a place of low esteem.
Fear not, the demons in your closet are no longer relevant.
Keep your head to the sky.
Eyes upon the future-- your prize.
Mistakes.
Part of the path leading to ones destiny.
Chase dreams; nothing can stop you but the fear of inadequacy on this race to infinity.
Success is just beyond the horizon.
With each unique sunrise; arises a chance anew to rise above the fear in you.
The opinion one holds within ones self is greater than that of anyone else.

Untitled (Who is She?)

Look. Deep into her eyes.
What do you see? Have you ever once stopped to think that she is more than what's between her thighs?
Look past her looks, figure, and assets;
take the time to recognize the mental aspects... of she.
Of all the parts that make up she,
Her mind surpasses all else.
She who puts her emotions upon a shelf;
She who puts another before self.
Doing not what she wants to do, but what she has to do.
Story of her life.
Along comes you, unappreciative.
Here lies another strong woman, under appreciated.
Underneath her curves, lies the foundation of the earth.
A heart of pure gold.
A lifetime overflowing with unrequited love.
Still, her light, & joy within soars above the clouds as a pure white dove.
Shameful of a man to have the gall to mistreat her;
she who is the soul of the earth.
She who breathes life into the lifeless, hope into the hopeless.
Sacrifices, tears, loneliness, dear; proof of her dedication to the continuation of love unto the universe.
Who is she?
Mother, sister, friend, lover, wife; giver of life.
Look. Deep into her eyes.

Drawing Conclusions I See... Judgment... Really?

*** I may go hard with this one***

Has anyone noticed how much people judge other without knowing fact? How people will call you out of your name, and think it's alright? How someone can draw a conclusion based on something they THINK they see? Has anyone noticed?

Let's begin.

Honestly... can I live? Can I love? Peace of mind... please. I'd like to be able to be the person who God himself designed me to be without having to worry about what someone else might say about something they THINK they know. I'm glad I don't allow myself to be defined by what others say. Sure some things may be true, but I am who I am and quite frankly, your biased opinion does NOT matter.

Who do you think you are to come at another on a level of disrespect? Who are you to judge another? Why don't you first look inward?... Many times people are so full of hatred, and try to cover it up calling you their "friend". They'll come at you and try to BREAK YOU DOWN. But we must no allow them to do so. Why let anothers ignorance define you? You know who you are, and that is all that matters. Can you hear me yet?


Let's go...


You claim to know me. You claim to know everything about me, my life, my heart, my mind, my friends, and the list goes on. Have you ever taken the time to not only ask, but to listen? Sure you may come to me and ask something; but not out of love, from the simple fact that you are indeed NOSY and have no life of your own to look at. If you want to know something, ask. If you want clarification, ask! When you're in a situation where you don't know something, don't open your mouth with ignorant hogwash. PLEASE. When you come at another with your thoughtlessness, you do in fact look dumb. Take these words; digest them, learn them, live by them... A STILL TONGUE MAKES A WISE HEAD. Observe first, then speak... If you don't genuinely care about me, there is no need for you to know about my life. Don't worry about me doing me, DO YOU!

PLEASE don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to be rude, mean, hateful, or anything of the sort. I am simply stating fact with nothing but love in my heart. I am not mad nor am I upset, I just wish for my readers to leave with something. If you don't like what I say, I respectfully ask that you still listen. Why you ask? Because this is MY truth. GET SMART! Don't get caught in the world of oblivion.




Another work of DIVINE ENERGY !

I LOVE my readers...

don't forget... GET SMART!

Do You Love Me... Really?

In the world we live in today, we come across many people who we think we know very well. We also come across people who think they know us. In all actuality, there is a limit as to who you can call a "friend". Some say that friends are a dime a dozen, but true friends come your way once in a magenta moon. Over time, and as we grow older, many but not all of us learn that there are not many people who truly have your best interest at heart. They may claim they do, but when it all falls down, those same people are the first ones who leave your side. The people who one should call friends are the same ones who don't fail you. Those same people who even in you darkest hour, they're there just as a sign of comfort. Friends are the ones who will tell you about yourself, but only mean it out of love. Even in the face of an argument, a true friend will not allow nonsense to overshadow the value of a friendship. When you think about it, you'll find that a true friend not only expresses their love for you with words, but shows their love through selfless acts.

In personal experience, I've found that a lot of those who expressed "undying" love for me, really didn't love me as much as they said. Why you ask? Because when a problem arose, or when something occurred that they didn't like, they were the ones who dropped me like a hot potato. Do I feel some sort of animosity towards these people? No. Do I wish I had known of the end result before hand? It is quite possible. I wish I would have been able to protect my heart from the pain of the loss of yet another person I loved. The fact of the matter is that if any one of these people who I called "friends" were to come to me honestly, and said "Tresa, I need you..." I would be there. Regardless of how things ended, if I considered someone a friend, they always have me as a shoulder to cry on or whatever the need be. Will I allow myself to be taken advantage of and hurt? Absolutely not, but I will always lend an ear, shoulder, love or my knowledge.

In my life, I've met some wonderful people. I only try to befriend genuine people who I see a light in. When first getting to know someone, they may underestimate my loyalty as a friend. There are many things in the world that are important to me, but the need a true friend exceeds many of them. In most cases, it shouldn't matter what one is doing. If you see that a friend is in need of love, give it to them. Other things can wait, but a friend can be gone in the blink of an eye.

Show those who you love that you love them. Don't just tell them when it's convenient. Don't fail those who would do anything for you. LOVE is the new movement, and even if you find that there's someone who you don't necessarily consider a friend is in need, spare them a moment of your time. Just a moment of your time goes a long way. Don't allow people to think of you as unkind, show you love to all. Regardless of if you like or agree with what they do. If you have been known to turn people away, change your ways. If I tell you "I need you," do not harden your heart. Rather show me the love you have within you. Do unto others as you would have done unto you. LOVE others because Christ first loved us.


Another work of DIVINE ENERGY!

I LOVE you all... sincerely.

A New Day Awaits Me

The sun has arisen. A new day awaits me. The aftermath of yesterday's actions are upon me. Overwhelmed by emotions, my heart feels like a nuclear explosion.
I think to myself, "Do not dwell on yesterdays actions, but on the undeniable triumph tomorrow." Yes, strength is coming. Put the sullenness behind.
Although my heart is heavy, a new day is awaiting me.
Tears are but a temporary solution. The new day awaits me.
It's time that I face my demons, for my victory in inevitable.
Because more powerful than any pain or sorrow, is my inner joy; and I will persevere until I have overcome my obstacles.
The only thing that has kept me from success is the fear of failure. No longer will i be held back by fear, but motivated by the mere thought.
I have made up my mind. The morning will bring Joy, and yesterday is behind me.
A new day awaits me.




God is Love

Will you still love me tomorrow?

Thought have been hanging on my mind for quite some time,

And I'm longing for a bit of clarity.

I know that today, you're mine completely,

but what about tomorrow?

If I were to give you my everything, would you still be in love with me?

Will you still love me when I'm vulnerable,

and when I just need to cry?

Will you stand somewhere nearby?

If I were to say to you "I need you,"

would you come, or would it be yet another game of taboo?

I don't ask much of you,

and my requests are simple.

All I ask is for honesty, respect, and devotion.

And don't let your pride overcome your emotions.

Will you love me as years pass?

Or when you see that another woman's looks are something mine can no longer surpass?

With each morning, comes a new outlook;

Will I still be the princess in your storybook?

Will you still love me tomorrow if we don't have a romance like that of "The Notebook"?

So, answer me honestly, 

because it's taking a lot out of me.

Will you still love me tomorrow?

Black in America: Part 2 - Hateration Nation

*****In advanced, I'd like to take the time out to say that it is never my intention to discourage you, but rather to encourage you. Encourage you not only to change your thinking, but in turn to change your life.*****


I'm sure everyone is familiar with those little people I'd like to call haters, correct? Well in this blog I'd like to not only address them, but the people they hate on. My main focus, however, is the hating that occurs in the black community.

I'm sorry that I always have to go here, but black people just love to hate on each other! And that's the honest truth. I find it so heartbreaking that we always feel the need to break each other down in their endeavors rather than to support one another. Many of us as a community fail to realize that if we worked together as one, we would be able to literally take over the world. Rather than "knocking someones hustle," or discouraging them, why not send a little bit of praise their way? Will it kill you to acknowledge someone who's doing well? Please... spare me the nonsense!

The worst part about this whole thing is that it's not just in the secular world like you think it would be. I can honestly say that a lot of the hateration occurs here by the hypocritical society we call the church. Also known as the people we see as our advisers, and leaders. You would think that the same people who are asking for your money, would take some time to invest in the people who make their jobs possible. Now please don't take what I'm saying wrong, because many and most of our spiritual leaders are amazing and truly inspiring in what they do. However, there are others who think of it as a glamorous job in which they talk about hell, and damnation, and in turn, their words will lead people to Christ. Instead, these words force people as far away as possible from the church, and into other religions (I'm NOT mad at you if you choose to place your faith elsewhere. Honestly, I can understand it.)

I find that in other communities such as the Jewish, Asian, and Italian communities, that they all support one another. Sometimes even with a simple friendly competition. From a young age, they are taught to support each other regardless of whether or not they actually like the other. They exhibit a non-selfish type of love and respect for one another.

As for the people being subject to a constant attempt at a hindrance to your success, don't allow it to stop you. Keep on believing and succeeding. You are your own worst enemy; so if you become engulfed in the negativity, you are nothing but a hindrance to your own self. Keep your head to the sky, and always remember to let your haters be your motivation!


Another work of DiViNE ENERGY !
Much LOVE and ENCOURAGEMENT to all who read,
Tresa Joy